How to Heal Through Shadow Work: Embracing the Parts of You That Still Hurt
- Katiana Cordoba
- May 2
- 2 min read

There are moments on the spiritual path when an unexpected heaviness rises. It doesn’t always come with a name—but with a subtle ache in the soul. A shadow. And in those moments, we might try to lift ourselves with music, movement, prayer, or conversation.
But not all wounds want to be lifted. Some want to be met.
This is the essence of shadow work—the practice of acknowledging and embracing the parts of us that carry pain, confusion, or unmet needs. These are not parts to hide or suppress. They are parts to love.
Over time, I’ve come to understand that healing emotional wounds isn’t about removing darkness. It’s about sitting with it—with compassion, presence, and truth. When I stop resisting the shadow, I begin to see: it is not my enemy. It is my guide.
What is Shadow Work?
Shadow work is the act of turning toward the thoughts, emotions, and memories we’ve rejected, buried, or deemed “too much.” It’s not about self-analysis—it’s about self-compassion. The shadow is often the voice of your inner child, asking for love, asking to be acknowledged. When you finally pause to listen, you begin to heal not just a wound—but a relationship with yourself.
The Inner Voice That Longs for You
One of the most sacred messages I’ve received in meditation is this:
*“Just as you long for Divine Love in your darkest moments—your inner self longs for you.”
You are the presence she has been waiting for. You are the compassion she craves. You are the listener she needs.
And every time you pause to breathe, feel, and witness your own emotions—you become the safe space you’ve always needed. You become the medicine.
From Suppression to Integration
Many of us were taught to avoid or deny our emotions. But the truth is: emotions do not disappear when ignored. They live in the body, in the nervous system, in the breath. And until they are felt, they are not free.
So instead of pushing them away, I now say to myself:
“You are allowed to feel. You are allowed to be sad, to miss, to remember, to grieve. You are not broken. You are becoming whole.”
When we give ourselves this kind of love, we stop abandoning the most tender parts of who we are. We begin to rise—not because we avoided the shadow, but because we walked through it with grace.
A Prayer for Your Journey
To anyone reading this—if you are in a tender place, here is a prayer for your path:
“I hold space for every part of me.I welcome the shadow, the ache, the longing.I return to myself with love.I am the embrace I once searched for. I am the medicine. I am the light that does not deny the dark—but transforms it.”
You are not alone. The Divine walks with you—in the roots, in the leaves, in the breath, in the noise, in the stillness...
Katiana
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